Wednesday, November 12, 2008

Rewind


I have spent fully half my adult life reading out loud.
No kidding.
I really have.

I started reading to my babies from board books at 3 months old. By the time they were 6 months, they would sit on my lap, wriggling in excitement and anticipation over what would come next in the "story."
As the kids graduated from board books, we moved into the realm of Little Golden Books, Sesame Street stories and The Berenstain Bears. From there, it was a short hop to Uncle Wiggily, Grimms Fairytales and King Arthur.
We read in the morning, before and after naps and before bed each and every night, to each and every child.
There were times when I would be reading a novel to the boys, a separate book to Sarah, and still different books to Melissa. We used to have "reading marathons," when I would tell the kids to choose a stack of books each and we would snuggle up in bed or on the couch and read, read, read to our hearts' content.

My parents thought we were a little weird to be still be reading to our teenage sons, but as long as they enjoyed it, Michael and I were happy to oblige. Besides, it was fun to share more adult humor and science fiction/fantasy with our kids.
With the decision to homeschool came even more reading aloud, as the kids were all home for more hours every day. We delved into historical fiction, mythology and classical literature. There were times when I was reading upwards of 3 or 4 hours a day.
Out loud.
Yesterday was one such day, as I read the new Cornelia Funke book, "Inkdeath," to Melissa while she ate breakfast, during lunch and well into the afternoon. I joke that Melissa uses me as her tape player, reading to her while she works on crochet projects, woodburning, artwork, etc.
I remember the last book I read to all four children at once. "Watership Down," by Richard Adams, was a fantastic family read. My two girls snuggled on each side of me, my teenage boys sprawled across the foot of the bed and dh often squeezed in somewhere while we all enjoyed the novel together.
Reading to my kids, introducing them to the glory of a good story, the thrill of finding a book you just can't put down, has been one of the most fulfiling activities of my motherhood.

Unfortunately, my ability to continue reading while basically asleep has also provided a lifetime of hilarity for my kids. As I begin to fall asleep, random phrases creep into the text, such as the time I boldy read of the knight who "donned his shining earrings" or the time the pharoah and his enemy decided to "meet over a cup of coffee."
I have also been known to read entire chapters and not be able to remember what I've read. Far too often, the girls have had to recap the previous night's adventures, as I have no memory whatsoever of having read them.

Melissa is only 11 1/2, so I figure I have a good 6 or 7 years of reading aloud left before grandchildren.

Although, I've always thought it would be fun to read a book out loud with my husband...

3 comments:

Oddswizard said...

I too am a big fan of reading aloud (especially after reading The Read Aloud Handbook by Jim Trelease). We have a 2.5 year old who has had stories read to him quite a bit (besides other times of the day... before bed time I usually read for an hour or slightly more). It seems like his vocabulary is quite high because of this but I REALLY have enjoyed the bonding time. I sometimes wonder what his vocabulary and listening comprehension will be like when he is say 10... you can probably give me a good idea of how it has helped your kids.

My wife and I have been thinking about homeschooling, which I think we will. One of the "pros" to homeschool has to include more time for reading and being read to out loud.

Karen said...

Oh, absolutely!
Homeschooling is wonderful, as it truly does give you the gift of time.
You are right on the mark about vocabulary. Reading aloud also builds attention span, a love of learning, and I believe, an easier time learning to read for many children.
Best of all though, is that snuggle time! There truly is nothing better.

Anonymous said...

I love reading with the kids. We get to share an adventure together. I read books I never would and wouldn't enjoy nearly as much if I weren't reading them to the kids.
The vocabular you learn from reading goes far beyond what you get in spoken language. It would benefit the kids if I pronounced all the words correctly. Some words stump me.
I learned the word akembo from one book that used it in every other paragraph. I finally had to look the word up. Generally I just skip over words I don't know when reading to myself at least. I just want to get on with the story.
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